COME FALL IN LOVE

I knew you were going to read this. No matter what else you read in this blog this heading is bound to attract readership. Don't worry there is nothing wrong with your cerebrum , its actually those hormones that stimulate conjugal and filial love.
Out of all the emotions namely fear,pain, envy ,dissatisfaction ;love is the most dreadful and lethal.It gives you satisfaction but with dire results.A doctor finds it extremely difficult to operate his daughter. A lawyer fears failure while defending his son. A teacher gets insecure at his or her own off springs poor results. Love is an extreme emotion that runs out practicality.Its not always good to wear your heart on your sleeves.
Talking of conjugal expect, i have often found people saying that love in India is more than in west. When asked why , they say cause our marriages last more. They are blithely unaware of the financial dependence women have on their husbands in India. Don't snap your eyebrows . The evidence is that the present divorce rates are double than they were a few decades ago. Financial independence has lead to a sense of equality and further ego clashes, This has been the  most conducive factor by the analyst.Its not love.
We love our pets and unaware of how selfish our love is we chain our dogs,confine our fishes in small aquariums, cage our birds and devoid them of their freedom. We say that we love charity and helping the poor and desolate. Its nothing but a practice to atone for our sins. Its selfish.
  I am not being cynical, i am just highlighting the other side of the golden coin of love which we think doesn't even exists. I know its debatable and many of you wouldn't even agree. Bar your thoughts for a moment and retrospect your life . Doesn't jack die in the end? Doesn't Dev d ruin his life? Wasn't cutie pie cuddled to death?
The main objective of this article is to bring to your notice that in life there are times when you need to be ruthless ,and its important to use your brains and not your heart.
The saying itself conveys - people FALL in love.